What would u do?

[CincoandDahlilasgirl]

Editied to say this is a vent that happened last summer and nneded to get it off my chest!

well I have a friend who likes Cinco but not Dahlila(who btw can't stand my friend either) and everytime she comes over and Cinco does something to Dahlila like paws her in the face and I yell at Cinco she yells at Dahlila! We have this stick made of newspaper that we show the dogs when they get noaghty(as in nipping and wanting to bite) and in the rare occasion hit on the coffee table when they're really not listening well my friend was over and she started hitting the naughty stick on the table and Dahlila starts growling (she knew she wasn't doing nething wrong since she was just laying on the couch) I was in the office room getting something and I heard Dahlila growling so I ran out to the living room and yelled "EM! What u doing!?" "She won't get off the couch!" "She's allowed up there and she knows and thats why she's not listening to u!" That same dayour neighbor came looking for my dad and Dahlila snuck out out the door and my friend was like "Dahlila got out" "U didn't even try to grab her! Dog u have to feet to hands go out and...nvm I'll do it! u tell my dad the neighbor wants him" I get back in and she said "Sorry but I had my pj's on" then I told her "oh and I'm wearing jeans and a shirt!" sarcastic though I was actually in a nighty to. Then when we got Cinco she played with Cinco and forgot all about Dahlila! Infact I had to bribe her to walk Dahlila since theres no way in hell I'm gonna let her walk Cinco and risk him pulling the leash out of her hands and making me run after him!

Not to mention the time I was on the phone with some1 and Dahlila had to go out and I asked her the small favor of putting the leash on her and meeting me in the garage but no she had to completely ignore me after i asked nicely and Dahlila wound up pooping in the house! Since that was kinda her fault (in my take) after all I asked her to take her out to the garage and meet there and she didn't so I made her clean it up but she didn't know how to do that so I kinda snapped on her and said "u goto the bathroom,get some toilet paper,come over to where the poop is and pick it up and then flush it down the toilet!"

How do I get it through to her that she isn't gonna be coming to a house with no Dahlila for a long long time?!?
She's 1 of the few people Dahlila has even attempted biting(including me) sometimes i wish she would to :evil: :evil: :evil:
Ether that or I want to shack her so hard that her brains raddle! :evil: :evil: :evil: :evilbat: :evilbat: :evilbat:

Editied to say that after my mom found out what happened Em couldn't come over for a month!

[BuddysMom]

What would I do???

1. Stop thinking of this person as a "friend" or at the very least don't let her around your dogs, that means if you want to hang out go to her house or meet somewhere.
2. Kick a nipping dog off the couch until he/she learns some manners.

That's what I'd do for starters anyway.

[Lucky Chaos]

I agree 100%. This person dosn't sound like a friend at all. If someone dosn't like my dogs and their over at my house, tough. My dogs live here, that person dosn't

A dog should NEVER growl at someone, not to mention nip. Especially when they're on the couch because they consider it theirs. Being on the couch should be a privelidge, not a right. If I want to sit on the couch and theres a dog there usually I tell them to get off, and they never growl because they know what would happen if they did.

[CincoandDahlilasgirl]

I think the time she nipped is when she came at her to fast and Dahlila also don't like strangers picking her up. The couch thing is Dahlila was on the midle cushion meaning em had 2 other 1's to use. She got told the rules of the house (she did somethings to piss my parents off like spilling milk on the bills and not saying nething until my mom saw milk running off the counter and boy did my dad go nuts when he saw wet stains on the envolopes but luckily she wasn't there then) the night that happened Dahlila followed me everywhere that emily wasn't gonna be. Dahlila got scolded cuz she listens to "no bite".

[kendalyn]

My question is why are you asking this person to help you out around the house so much? I would never ask a guest to help me with my dog chores. You wanted her to clean up poop and walk one of the dogs? I guess I always thought that guests should not be expected to help with chores.

And yes, I would definately kick Dahlila off the couch for a while.

[CincoandDahlilasgirl]

Well as I recall i didn't ask her to walk her I asked her to get the leash on her and wait for me while I finished cleaning up the poop. Plus it was kinda giving her her own medicine with all the stuff she made me do it at her house.

btw-this was last summer I just needed a really big rant time since she's been doing stuff to build it up(after numerous times of telling her my house my rules listen to them). Sorry if this sounded mean but the bugs going around here.