i am not condoning (sp?) any of these stories. I am just pointing out that somethings do happen unexpectedly and it is better for the dog to go to a new home. In my case, I have had my pomeranian for going on 4 years. I got him when i lived alone, and worked during the day. he had everything he needed, vet visits, toys, exercise... ect. this year i unexpectantly had a baby and a little over a year ago i started night school. so now im gone during the day and night and all the other time is devoted to my 5 month old. so i am a full time employee full time student and full time mommy. I love my pom to death and he was always my first baby, but i can just not afford what he needs right now, grooming, vet visits, ect... and god forbid something bad happen to him i wont be able to afford that either. I as well do not have the time he needs for love and affection. Now should i make him stay in my home and suffer or work with a rescue and find him a good home? I love him to much to make him suffer. I have been working with the central virginia pomeranian rescue for finding him a good home, but this has been over a month and he was due for his shots last month. so dreadfully i am forced with making the decision of giving him to the rescue leader so she can foster him and find him a good home as well get his necessary shots and needs. now am i a bad or irresponsible owner? i do not feel i am becasue i am putting his needs first, i would love to keep him but refuse to make him suffer. Sorry about my rant, i am upset about this situation. :bigcry: